God comes to us disguised as our life, and life begins at the end of our comfort zone.

I am here to shake things up. To unapologetically release my "Rhetness" into the universe, knowing that the results reciprocated will revive and revolutionize the art of our very being as humans. To realize and actualize the true nature of our souls. To awaken the giant within.  To optimize and maximize the human experience. We are here to learn, to grow, to explore, and above all, we are here to LOVE. This is the human becoming. 

Welcome to life through the lens of my perception.

-Rhet Hayden

July 25, 2019

 Often we rely on our surroundings to dictate the course of our lives. One wakes up for the day in a reactive state straight out the gate, annoyed at the grooling day ahead letting it dictate how we feel the rest of the day.

  We forget sometimes how powerful and effec...

May 29, 2019


  • I was born weak, sick, skinny, and pale

  • I had a passion for sports, but an allergy to hard work

  • By age 22 I was bloated, tired, achy, and clueless how to fix my body. So I proceeded to pop Excedrine, Pepto, Prilosec, and Tylenol PM daily. 

  • I...

January 30, 2019

I’m living my best life.  Who all has heard this phrase? It seems to be a common phrase these days, shouted by teenagers, posted on memes, quoted in Instagram posts…but are we truly living our best life?

There was a time when I would have said I was living my best life....

January 7, 2019

The following is a letter I wrote to my Mother. This is the most vulnerable and open I can get. The letter was written to her in part explaining my actions, as well as apologizing for my actions. The night before this was written, my parents, as well as Christy (my now...

January 7, 2019

Our human brains are mere tools. Like an intestine gives us life by digesting food and distributing nutrients throughout the body, our brains just organize, analyze, interpret, predict, and command information to and from the universe. Eyes react to light, brain interp...

June 19, 2018

*This will be the final post on the Human Becoming Blog. I decided to close down the website at the end of this month. Hope you have enjoyed reading my work. Thanks. 

I love taking something from the bible and unfolding it into linear explanations that cross over into d...

February 20, 2018


Since I hate saying I “can’t“ have/do something, I usually try to stay away from being “on a diet” or saying that I’m “not drinking at all” or any type of arbitrary protocol that restricts or prevents the involvement in any type of activity or proces...

February 4, 2018

When I was 25, I was fearless. I got a tattoo of the Devil's pitchfork on my arm with flames surrounding it. The concept behind it (and name of this post) comes from a song The Black Keys did with RZA from Wu-tang called "The Baddest Man Alive."

And at the time, I felt...

November 15, 2017

"I walk with Jesus, is he walking with me? Hard to tell when everybody's on the same street..."

-The Devil Makes Three

What does it mean to walk with God?

The language we use often paints a picture that is romantic, powerful, even magical... but what it lacks in practic...

October 13, 2017

Stream of consciousness notes I wrote shortly after a talk I heard from a former teacher, coach, principal, and superintendent. Enjoy. 

Your vibe attracts your tribe. When you enter a room, you can feel the mood. You can feel the energy, the vibrations, the tone. This i...

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